Friday, April 15, 2011

6 month update - adventures in south west Western Australia

Hello everyone, what a big year it's been already. We celebrated Malcolm's 6 months and our third wedding anniversary by taking a trip - it does not fall to the faint hearted to travel with an infant, but buoyed with encouragement from other parents - 'travel while they're young and not crawling', we set off.

It has been magnificent - hard at times as Malcolm decides occasionally he has had enough, but also amazing and wonderful to travel with him and sometimes see the world a little like he might.

First stop WA - specifically the South West corner for a wedding and then some touring.
The flight over was a little painful as we didn't manage to get a bassinet - 9 babies on the one flight - and so Malcolm had to try to sleep propped on Prita's knees and a pillow. for some reason he didn't find it particularly comfortable so stayed awake and grumbled instead. On top of that Prita came down with some extreme nausea - incorrectly attributed to tr
avel sickness - and was feeling extremely faint.
But we landed in Perth intact and promptly set out to look for coffee. Well, that's a whole blog post in itself...

We jumped in our little hire car and zoomed South. There were amazing squalls of tropical dimensions - they didn't last long but made it
almost undriveable when they were there.
We emerged in Bunbury - a lovely town, as we drove in we saw a beautiful mangrove boardwalk - one of my big weaknesses - we managed to see the dolphin centre. By this time Sean was beginning to feel extremely sick in the stomach as well. So Prita had a run along the harbour front while Malcolm and Sean had some man time on this lovely patch of soft grass under a Norfolk pine.




















After an obligatory stop at the Busselton Jetty and a stop at Busselton pharmacy to buy some completely useless nausea medication, we hopped in the car and drove down to Dunsborough for Katie and James' wedding.

The biggest tragedy of this holiday was the timing of Sean getting sick. While I didn't enjoy being ill on the plane, Sean couldn't enjoy Katie and James' fabulous wedding because he was so unwell.
The medication was having little effect and along with extreme stomach pain he
was also very faint and couldn't stand up for more than a few minutes at a time. Such a shame, and it meant we got no photos :-( The wedding was in the most beautiful location at Wise Winery, in a bushy setting with incredible views over the Karri forest and then stretching out to the Naturaliste bay and ocean beyond. The food was amazing and we had a lovely time meeting their friends and family (almost all of whom we didn't know). It was gorgeous.

The best bit about WA were the magnificent forests, particularly the tall splendiferous Karri trees. While our walks were necessarily short we chose carefully and each one was really beautiful and different. Malcolm for the most part enjoyed being in the backpack carrier and loved looking around the incredible scenery as well. He was also particularly entranced by the karris - that is what he is looking at in this photo. Weirdly, he generally found it impossible to stay awake even when it was no where near nap time, who would have thought piggy back riding was so soporific.


Tuesday, March 1, 2011

5 month update

Malcolm is today 5 months old and we're a little stunned at the pace of life. It's all happening so fast!



Our little prince / dinosour is an absolute joy and we're overwhelmed with wonder at him every day, I really had no idea parenthood would be so awesome. This is in part thanks to those parent hormones and in part to Malcolm's lovely and obliging personality. His a very smiling and chilled out baby - even by objective standards - the other mother's at playgroup all agree. He babbles constantly, and often with such a serious expression that we're sure he's trying to talk through the meaning of the universe with us.

And he patiently puts up with being taken along to muddy races and bike events, without so much as a whinge when we were out in the poring rain during the storms brought by the tail of Cyclone Yasi. And after much cajoling and pleading and a few tricks (like pouring a large bottle of expressed milk down his throat while he's mostly asleep at 11pm), he hasn't woken during the night since he started sleeping through at 16 weeks. He wakes every morning with a massive grin to start the day. He's brilliant and we are completely besotted.

So now we are getting around 7 hours sleep every night (not quite unbroken, his loud sleeping noises still wake us up and I supposed will until I'm comfortable to turn the monitor off), and we are back on the bike again. It almost feels like our lives are back to normal. It's quicker than expected. We've even been to a couple of races where we have managed to tag team the care of Malcolm. We also get some very generous baby sitting which gives us time together to do things we love as a couple (riding, swimming, ok the odd movie too), something we still miss a lot even though we do 'see' each other a lot since we spend more time at home than we ever have before.



I've learnt that the reason parents talk about their children all the time is not necessarily because the're obsessed, but because there is so little else going on in there lives that their left with nothing else to talk about! Sean is back at work full time, a little regretfully but necessary for the moment, at least until we can swap places. I'll be at home for a little while yet, perhaps until the middle of the year.

I finally managed to finish my masters. having assessment to do for the first few months of Malcolm's life was a huge strain and I'm now feeling considerably lighter and happier and more capable.

Unfortunately my days still manage to be completely filled up with things other than my to do list. Malcolm worked out pretty quickly that life is too interesting to sleep in the day time, so he keeps me on my toes. We spend our days eating (his one difficulty, aside from refusing to sleep in the day, is that is he a remarkably slow eater and burper, taking more than double the time of other babies his age), playing, singing, reading, going to various medical appointments, doing Malcolm's neck and back exercises (!), Malcolm's swimming, shopping, chores, admin....

We've been going to a play group once a week that was arranged by our maternal and child health centre, and shortly we are going to start going to a spanish speaking playgroup too. I had dreamt of doing exciting things like baking scones and gardening, but I still haven't found time for extra-curricular pursuits yet. It's funny that despite not working, I currently feel like I have less time to get my own things done (like write emails or read the paper) than I've ever had in
my life.

And yet, I have never been so happy or fulfilled. Contented sigh...

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Malcolm's summer vacation

Here are some pics of our little prince's first beach holiday and Christmas.
Thank you to all our wonderful family, it was so great to spend time with you all and our trip was fun and relaxing.


















We're back now, and settling into real life as bread winner and house wife. It's good to be in Melbourne, we do love it here.

Malcolm is still growing at a great rate and is now over 6 kg (almost double birthweight) and 61cm long (10 cm longer).





Love Prita, Sean and the little prince


Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Grandparents edition

sorry for delay in photo updates, we've had internet troubles. We back and Malcolm is just cuter every day.




Lucky Malcolm has had a steady stream of grandparent visits over the last four weeks.

Grandma Bhagya





Grandmas Judy and Krissa


Grandpappy Shahida







Grandma Prashant




Grandma and Grandpa Paul and Robin






Sunday, October 24, 2010

More pics on picasa

Have started slowly popping photos on picasa, latest up are from Friday
Malcolm at 3 weeks

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Sleep in

Three in the afternoon, just before feeding ...


This is just a little video I shot while we were just hanging out together ... I like it because there's all of my favourite Malcolm expressions, finishing with the greatest! 

Saturday, October 16, 2010

New Malcolm photos

Here are a few more of the little man.






7 days old






8 days old













9 days old







10 days old









15 days old


Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Malcolm joins us

Dear All,

On Friday, 1 October 2010 at 10:11, We met Malcolm Daniel Baker for the first time.
He weighed 3.22 kg and was 51cm long, and utterly, utterly gorgeous.
We're completely smitten, which goes a long way to explaining the sleepless nights, pooey nappies and lives focused almost exclusively around him. Prita was amazing, and we seem to have taken to family life quite well.

The only question that remains is ... how long until we can get him on a bike!









Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Sunshine coast cycle tour

Photos of our babymoon, through the Glass house mountains and the Blackall range, and finally to Noosa. What a wonderful holiday for the 2.5 of us!

Photos here

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

In construction

Soon to appear:

  • lands end to john o'groats - the inside story
  • making it back to Melboourne
  • walkabouts, mountain biking and getting close and personal with the Aussie bush

Friday, June 19, 2009

Just found this - Salisbury Cathedral

Jeff Koon's puppy dripped on me (and now I can't get the stain out of my shirt)

I am sitting in the residences of the University of Onati, Spain. The University dates back to medieval times, and is believed to have been the first one on the Iberian peninsula. The University building is stunning, and the residential complex no less so. It's a beautiful space to sit and reflect. Onati is cradled between sharp hills, so wherever you walk there are views up to the peaks. There is much still of the medieval and renaissance periods around this part of the town.

Before coming here we landed in Bilbao, a city we love, engaged with the present, conscious of its past, and energised by the Guggenheim and the many other galleries - I watched as two old men stood in front of a piece of modernist sculpture and discussed it - I have no idea what they were saying, but they were really into it, gesturing at the sculpture and then at the surrounds, to each other and back to the statue.


Thursday, June 18, 2009

Land's End to John o' Groats - Day 0


We made it! Not without a few tears, blisters and of course some rain, but it was glorious!

What a trip - up the length of the UK, taking in the great and the gaudy along the way. This is a popular cycle for many Britons and overseas cyclists, some see it as a challenge - the record is something like 1 day 19 hours or something ridiculous - we were more keen to do something challenging, take in some of the parts of the UK we had not seen, and to bid a fond adieu to our home for the last 8 months in style.

Day 0

From the start it was a wondrous journey - the small roads from Penzance where we left the train to Land's End to start our journey proper were magical -old forested glades, very steep but lush, full of wildflowers and the rustle of life - we arrived in Land's End and took our photos in front of the tacky signs, just before we ventured into the Land's End amusement park - here is one of the most beautiful, remote parts of the UK, and it boasts a Dr Who experience, an aquarium, a ride to the centre of the earth, and a fake helicopter ride too. 

Luckily, we were there after closing time, and had the place to ourselves apart from some teenagers getting quietly drunk and the lovely bar tender who filled our bottles, sympathising with us about the incredibly hot weather. Actually, after the amusement park, the actual promontory becomes peaceful again, free of crowds having their pictures taken with the sign pointing to home (for 5 pounds!), free of people posting letters in 'the last letter box', and it's just rolling hills, cliffs, and sea rocks, and the sun close to setting made it kind of wondrous.

Then we peddaled the few miles to our hostel, outside the little village of St Just, and discovered that most of the 3000 other people who do this each year were there too. Alright, a slight exageration, but there were 5 or 6 groups of people, also setting out, excited and resolute, and in one case already quite sunburnt (the English appear pathologically disinclined to believe that their sunshine will hurt them, and therefore to take any kind of remedial action). We sat outside and chatted, discussed the pros and cons of different routes, the minutiae of panniers, map covers, etc as the sun became a glowing carmine ball and sank into the sea.

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Day 8 of lands end to john o groats

Well, here we are about to go through the lakes district, halfway there.

It's been so spectacular, we've seen parts of england and wales we never wuld have seen otherwise. Highlights - cornwall coast, exmoor, and tintern abbey. rained out yesterday, but looking a bit better today. love to everyone as the timer runs out.
S+P

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Croatia - sea, sun, kayaks

Sitting in the caffe LA in Zadar, Croatia, nursing the best coffee Ive had for ages and wretzling with the keyboard.


Croatia has been amazing, too amaying to go into detail here, but all the superlatives cannot describe sunset on the marbled church spires, the fortress walls of Dubrovnik at dawn, the aching beauty of the mountains adorned with tiny churches and wild irises, the unreal azure waters that we have kayaked in. Its been great, paddling to tiny islands and past villages ofstone and terracotta with Judy and Krissa. Now we are headed north, visiting medieval towns, the most wonderful of which has been Trogir, with a beautiful campanile and square, and themost wonderful studio loft accommodation we have found yet! We also visited Split, most famous for the retirement home of Diocletian, the Roman empire who liked to find creative ways to kill christians - his mausoleum is now the church. The huge fortified villa he built has been modified over the years, people made rooms of appartment chambers and streets of corridors, and windows in the fortifications, but the roman grandeur of the place still remains.

Tomorrow we will go to the Plitvice national park, an incredible cascade from 16 lakes, and then on to Zagreb and then Venice. Pictures soon!

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Praha, city of towers


There is something lovely in the air of Prague, and it's not the drains. There's a romantic, anything is possible, wonderful feeling of lightness. Of course, it helped that we were there in Spring, and that we ran the Prague half-marathon, so there were a few endorphins bubbling around as well. Nonetheless, Prague was magnificent, beautiful, and one of the best mini-breaks we've had.

We arrived late on Friday night, after a more than usually frantic week at work, from the start
everything seemed to go our way - trains and tubes and planes were all there when we arrived, and soon we were rattling through Prague on a beaten up suburban bus to our hotel - even here when it seemed we were being conned it all turned out well - the hotel was all full, regretfully, management's fault, apologies, etc, etc, we were driven to another of their hotels, closer to the city centre. It turned out the place was gorgeous, was at the foot of the Charles bridge, with views to the castle and St Nicholas church, in a loft suite, but best of all, it was close to where the run started ...

We woke Saturday a little nervous - with little training we didn't really know what to expect. Breakfast was a buffet with one of the grumpiest people I have ever met - she harrumphed at every attempt at personableness and stalked in and out. We decided to cram in some sightseeing before the run, so we strolled over Charles bridge, a gently curving platform over the river Vltava with tremendous medieval gatehouses at either end, and sculptures of religious figures, particularly saints martyred in Prague and nearby. We were there early, and had the bridge almost to ourselves, only locals out for a quick constitutional to share it with, and the views of Prague on either bank and stretching up the hill to the castle on the west were superb. We then wandered to old town square, home of the astronomical clock, twin towered church of our lady before tyn, and an Easter market. At the centre of the square is a massive and moving monument to Jan Hus. We wandered through the market and then strolled to the art nouveau city hall, decorated by many Czech artists who did not normally speak to each other, but agreed to collaborate on patriotic grounds and produced a sublime structure in which every surface, every medium has been decorated in intricate art nouveau style.

We then headed home, changed and prepared for the race, lots of water and bananas. It was now that the true fortuitousness of our hotel was made apparent, we dressed lighter than we would have had to with a long journey, and then discovered thousands of tourist swarming
over the Charles bridge and we forced our way through to get to the starting line. We made it in good time and stretched as 'eye of the tiger' and other motivational songs blared. The race gun was fired by none other than the President of the Republic, Vaclav Klaus. As we
streamed past the start line, walking, running, walking, Smetana's 'My Country' blasted from the speakers - it was the most moving, and patriotic (in a good way) race start I've ever experienced.

The run itself was exhilarating, past beautiful buildings and over lovely bridges we all streamed, and as we ran, the weather improved from threatening rain to sunny with a few puffy clouds, perfect temperature as we headed north and doubled back through the old town, past many music stands where Czech bands played to the runners - we realised our pace quickened each time, as we ran to the Czech metal and rock bands along the way. People cheered and waved us on, and we felt on top of the world as the sun shone, the beauty of Prague overwhelmed us and we got closer to the finish line. High points were running over cobbled old streets through the old town, through an easter market with the smell of cinnamon and potato rolls, past beautiful
buildings from medieval to 20th century, which all showed a sensibility for harmonious blending of the past with the new, and going out of the tourist strips to parts of Prague we never would have seen, suburbs and ordinary streets, the Staropramen brewery. Finally we were finished, and as we filed past the finish line, a girl shook my hand and put a finisher medal over my neck, strangely humbling and exhilarating, and then we were eating and drinking until our stomachs
hurt, and trying to stretch out the soreness (and in my case cramps!).


We were on such a high afterwards, we practically danced home, and freshly showered headed out to see the Mucha exhibition. We discovered that we had both loved his work from almost childhood, and the museum was a delight, small and intimate and detailing his life, his time in Paris and the USA and return home, his crowning achievement of synthesising the Slavic narrative into a unified whole. It was wonderful but by the end we were exhausted and footsore, coming down from the high of the run. So we headed for a pub, and got our electrolyte fix the only way you can in the Czech republic - with beer. Much beer, or Pivo, which I am reliably informed is the same in all Slavic languages, which I think shows an admirable set of priorities for the language group. We drank and ate stodgy dough-like bread, boiled like bagels and whiter than any white bread, stew and deep fried onion rings with a sea of what looked like mustard and indeed turned out to be mustard.

Then, full, happy and a little drunk, we wandered to the little St Nicholas, on the old town square, for the apogee - the baroque musical recital in a baroque church. The soloist was a little dwarf like smiling man who nevertheless retained an iron grip on his little orchestra, and plunged with fiendish glee and panache into Handel, Bach, Vivaldi and Mozart's 'Prague' Symphony, beautiful and lyrical evocation of the city. As they played, most on baroque instruments, we looked up into the muted darkness of the dome, filled with baroque illustrations of the fall of man, god's mercy, and other wonders. As we sat on the pews I reflected on this divine music, in a divine setting, the way the Czechs seemed to have effortlessly produced beauty at every turn, but I suppose that the labour and perhaps pain and heartache are hidden from us by history, until only the brightness of their achievements remain. After the concert finished we hadn't had enough of the night so searched for a bar, finding a Cuban one that had fantastic music but standing room only, we took pity on our aching legs and kept searching. Just as we had given up, near our hotel, we found a cosy, bohemian wine bar, full of locals talking animatedly. We took the last two seats, right up at the bar, and discussed Czech wines with the knowledgeable woman behind the bar. She was keen for us to try distinct wines of her country, and we sampled and chatted and enjoyed the magical Prague night.

Sunday was a little greyer, and my victory for the day was achieving the impossible, getting our tetchy lady at the breakfast room to make us omelettes fresh. With a good all you can eat buffet behind us, we trekked up the hill towards the church of which the lonleyplanet noted 'if you only see one baroque church in Prague, make it this one'. And wow, St Nicholas' church didn't disappoint - every surface seemed to be decorated, a riot of green and pink marble, gold, sombre paintings and more gold statuary. We were allowed to climb the stairs and look down on it all from the gallery.

Then we continued our trek upwards to the castle. The immense complex broods above Prague from a spur, and inside is a warren of beautiful but stark courtyards, the massive bulk of St Vitus' cathedral, and a rather lovely if a little long display of the history of the castle, from prehistoric to the modern day in a dazzling array of exhibits. Hilarious for us were the detailed and useful labels next to every exhibit - the three young women at the ticket booth had engaged in vicious upselling to the poor befuddled Irish pensioners before us, basically directing them to pay more for the audioguides because there was no english explanations throughout the castle. The exhibit was superb, but, as I mentioned, a little long, which perhaps accounted for them offering, at the exit, a quick recap of all the major parts of the exhibition in one summary!

We also managed to take in the changing of the guard. When we got there, it seemed thousands of tourist hemmed in the guards. One guard, charged with keeping them back from the sacred spaces on which the incoming guards would tramp, impressed us with his cool, polite, calm but very insistent moving of tourists from in front of the lines. Given the tourists behaved like a ravening pack of rabble turned out to see the Christians fed to the lions, his grace under pressure was remarkable. By the end of the ordeal, I wanted to shake him by the hand for remaining human and calm in those circumstances. The changing of the guard was impressive as they marched towards the gates, exactly as I imagined they had done for centuries, come to relieve their fellows. By turns sombre and jolly the trumpets played as they clashed arms, saluted, formed, marched and eventually changed. It was almost worth being kneed in the back by a million Spanish grandmothers who wanted to use my head as a tripod (I'm not joking), or who had no compunction in delivering a discreet kidney blow to get me out of the way.

We then decided, perversely, to wait in the queue to get into St Vitus. We managed to eat most of our lunch in that queue. True, the cathedral was stunning, with stained glass completed in the 20th century by the likes of Mucha, beautiful and clear and startlingly bold in colour, and the
room in which I think St Vitus' remains are stored was a wonder, precious stones patterning the walls and medieval frescoes above them, the bones stored in a cathedral shaped coffin.

Then we were out, down the hill, legs still a little sore on the hundreds of steps, and finally to another pub for more beer, garlic soup and a strange salad. We headed out for the airport, on the same old suburban bus, rattling past suburbs that reminded me inexplicably of Helsinki, and then green and rocky spurs, and wooded hillsides, to the airport. The flight and arrival, despite them cancelling our entire tube line, flew by, and we arrived home a little breathless but happy, still smiling from the magic of the city of Prague.